Well, we are here. It hasn’t been an easy 3 days. As you might expect, traveling from Dallas to New York with 3 kids will test your nerves and patience. All things considered, it was a problem-free flight. No delays. No yacking. No major meltdowns---by the kids or us. But it was stressful nonetheless. We finally landed, got our luggage and met the driver. His job was to get us to the apartment, but I failed to give him route instructions, which I should have done given this was Christine’s first trip. He decides the best way from A to B is right smack through Harlem. “Here we are, Christine. Manhattan!” I did my best to explain that it gets better, much better. It was still a shock.
We arrived at the apartment around 5pm Monday. It was a beautiful evening—jacket weather, clear skies, children playing in the park down below. Inside, the apartment was a complete disaster, the biggest mess you’ve ever seen. Everything we owned was out of boxes and laying on the floor, in no particular order. Toys were stacked a foot deep in the kid’s room. We have entirely too many toys.
15 minutes after 5pm, Christine sat on the couch and began to cry. She missed home already. This was too much. The mess. Living in an apartment. Living only a few short miles from Harlem. The night was tough for all of us.
Tuesday was better. We got our game faces on and started getting the apartment under control. But we got bad news. We had planned on Jordan starting Pre-K mid-term to get a few months under her belt. We thought this would be good preparation for Kindergarten in the Fall. We were informed that NY is on a calendar year cutoff, and since Jordan is a 12/22/99 birthday, she is actually already supposed to be in Kindergarten and that she’s missed most of the year. As it is, she has 2 months of Kindergarten remaining, the summer off, then she’s in First Grade. Just like that—our first child is in Kindergarten. She starts today. 8:30 to 2:45pm Monday – Friday. She’s excited. Mom and Dad are sad that she’s growing up too fast.
People warned us that there will be rough days during the first 6 months or so. I thought I was prepared for the tears. They are tough to see. They leave me second guessing myself---what the heck are we doing in New York? But I am confident we made the right decision. I’ve noticed that with each passing hour, and with each bit of organization added to the home, things seem to get better.
It is still difficult on a mom of 3 in the city. Every little outing requires a huge effort. Just getting Jordan to school across the street will no doubt take hours. I eagerly await the day that we find a routine---one that Christine will be comfortable with.
Thank God for good friends. Ginger Vasser, JR’s wife, was a big help yesterday. They only live 3 short blocks away. She took Jordan to the library, and let the kids play for a bit. Meeting the Vasser’s has confirmed that this was a good decision. We are so excited about getting to know them better. And we are excited to be a part of Manhattan Christian Church. Although being part of a 10-person launch team of a church-plant was not on the radar when we decided to move, it is turning out to be the main reason we feel we ought to be here.
And thank God for good food---the best Sesame Chicken you’ve ever put in your mouth. The evenings have been good. We’ve been able to take a break and enjoy a good meal as a family.
It will take time.